Divorce Resource Library

Trusted divorce help for the questions you’re afraid to ask, the mistakes you can’t afford to make, and the next steps you need to understand.

Divorce is confusing, expensive, emotional, and overwhelming.

We created this resource page to help you figure out what to do next, what mistakes to avoid, and where to get trusted support before, during, and after divorce. Start with the free guide, listen to related episodes, or take the Divorce Crash Course for a clearer plan.

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Episode 128: Is Your Divorce Driving You to Drink Too Much?

How exactly how drinking impacts your emotional state, decision-making, and overall well-being during one of life’s most challenging times?

This episode IS NOT about giving up drinking completely; it’s about understanding when alcohol is helping or hurting as you navigate the divorce process.

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Andrea Rappaport Andrea Rappaport

Episode 127: The C Word: Custody (The Unavoidable Part of Divorce)

And now, we’re tackling one of the toughest realities of divorce: custody. Custody arrangements can feel unnatural, overwhelming, and emotional. Deciding when and how much time you spend with your children after a divorce is never easy, but it’s an unavoidable part of the process. In this episode, we break down how to handle custody agreements, how to mentally prepare for time away from your kids, and what you need to know to navigate this difficult terrain.

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Andrea Rappaport Andrea Rappaport

Episode 126: Is Your Spouse Stringing You Along? (Not Divorcing, but not "Happily Married")

Let’s talk about the difficult topic of feeling strung along in a marriage. Whether your spouse is coming and going as they please or avoiding making a decision about your future together, it can leave you feeling powerless. The hosts discuss how midlife changes like perimenopause and stress only make these dynamics more challenging, but the real focus is on how to take back your power by setting boundaries.

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Andrea Rappaport Andrea Rappaport

Episode 124: Can You Even Afford to Get Divorced?!

Let’s be honest, talking finances is about as fun as doing taxes, but it’s one of the biggest reasons people hit pause on their divorce plans. Fear of the unknown can be paralyzing, but don’t worry, we’ve got you covered!

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Andrea Rappaport Andrea Rappaport

Episode 121: Do NOT Fall for These Common Divorce Misconceptions!

We're baaaack! And today we're talking about common divorce myths and you know how we do- we're providing practical advice for navigating high-conflict separations. The episode addresses misconceptions about co-parenting, alimony, legal advantages for moms, and the impact of infidelity.

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Andrea Rappaport Andrea Rappaport

Episode117: How Do You Know When Your Marriage is Over? (special re air)

What we have learned in our professional careers as a family law attorney and hosting this podcast is that sometimes hearing other people's stories help you relate more to your own. So today, we are re airing an episode from the second season of our show which features someone's personal story about when they knew their marriage was offically over. 

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Episode 115: How to Get the Right Divorce Support

When you can't decide whether you need to scream in your car/bathroom/ or random aisle at Target, you need to know who you can turn to who will comfort you, make you laugh, and remind you that this horrible phase that you're in will not be your forever.

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Episode 113: High Conflict Divorce Survival Guide

This episode is your high conflict divorce survival guide.

We are going to cover the steps you should take to help maintain your sanity and stamina needed to survive high conflict divorce process.

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Episode111: What to Consider About the Summer (Divorce Tips!)

Summer’s almost here folks, and you know what that means...camps, vacations..and your divorce, oh my!

In this episode, we talk about the significance of communication and flexibility in establishing summer parenting schedules, and the legal implications of these changes.

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Episode109: Can You Record Your Ex?? (Divorce Questions)

Today’s episode is about something we get asked about A LOT - recording your ex.

The truth of the matter is there are some major things you MUST think about before hitting that record button, and yes, EVEN if your attorney suggests it. However, there is a time & a place for capturing what you need to help your divorce proceeding.

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