Morgan and Andrea are here to share the good, the bad, the really bad and the “are you kidding me?” things you need to know if you’re getting divorced (or considering it). What started as a passion project has grown into a top 3 podcast in the divorce category. Learn from Morgan’s experience as a family law attorney and Andrea’s mistakes as a divorced mom. You can feel the love and the levity as they walk you through the process all while making you laugh your loubs off. You got this and they’ve got you.
151. Getting the Best Divorce Team (What's Worth Your $$, What's Not?)
Andrea and Morgan break down the divorce dream team—who you need, who you don’t, and where to invest your VERY hard-earned dollars. From therapists to forensic accountants and parenting coordinators, they give you the inside scoop on which players actually move the needle in your case.
150. The Easiest Way to Save Money in Your Divorce
Think saving money during divorce is impossible? Think again. In this episode, Andrea and Morgan serve up the real (and hilarious) talk on how to actually cut your legal costs without sacrificing your sanity—or your settlement.
149. How To Prepare to Divorce a "Narcissist" with Renee Swanson of the Covert Narcissism Podcast
Morgan and Andrea welcome Renee Swanson, host of the Covert Narcissism podcast, for a powerful conversation about planning your way out of an emotionally abusive marriage.
148. How Do I Know if I Need a Divorce, or if It’s Menopause/Perimenopause?
The conversation covers the confusion and frustration many women feel as they experience shifts in their bodies and emotions, which can often be mistaken for relationship problems. Dr. Cushing explains the difference between perimenopause and menopause, the importance of hormone therapy (HRT), and how addressing hormonal imbalances can help women make clearer, more rational decisions during the divorce process.
147. Divorce Support for Devout Christians
Our guest, Bree Sullivan-Howell, a family law attorney and author, shares her personal journey and professional insights on navigating divorce when your Christian faith conflicts with the decision to separate.
146. Special Needs Children & Divorce (What to do BEFORE You File)
We’re joined by Cari Pines, an attorney in LA who specializes in family law and has personal experience with raising special needs children.
145. High Conflict Divorce: How Do You Know if Your Child needs a GAL or AFC??
Special guest,Randi Karmel, a seasoned attorney based in New York, shares her expert insights on when and why these professionals might be appointed in divorce cases and how they can impact your case.
144. Does Your Divorce Need a Forensic Accountant?
We dive into the world of forensic accountants and when you should—and shouldn't—bring one into your divorce case. Featuring expert Marie Ebersbacher, a senior managing director in forensic consulting, we explore how forensic accountants help uncover hidden assets, value businesses, and track income.
143. The Best Time vs Worst Time to File for Divorce
What Listeners Will Learn:
The ideal time to file for divorce (hint: there actually IS an ideal time)..
142. Do I Need a Prenup? (Everything You Need to Know About Prenups to Avoid an Expensive Divorce)
The burning questions you'll get answers to:
Who typically needs a prenup?
Are there any common clauses included in prenups, like those involving children or lifestyle?
How much can you expect to pay for a prenup?
Should both parties hire separate attorneys when creating a prenup?
What should someone look out for if they are served a prenup?
141. What You Need to Know about Your Divorce Custody Agreement Before You Sign
Andrea shares her personal struggles with her own parenting agreement and offers tips on how you can avoid the mistakes she made. Morgan provides expert legal insight on how to negotiate a fair agreement that works for both parents and their kids.
140. Divorce Anxiety: How to Handle the Inner Chaos and Uncertainty
We’re joined by transformational coach Annmarie Chereso, who shares her expertise on how fear affects the brain and behavior during such a challenging time. Annmarie provides practical tools to manage fear, including a four-step method that helps individuals move from a place of fear to empowerment.
139. Divorce Deposition PRO TIPS
We break down what a deposition is, how it works, and the importance of preparation to ensure you present yourself as a strong witness. Morgan, a seasoned divorce lawyer, walks listeners through key strategies for handling a deposition, including how to answer questions succinctly, when to ask for a break, and why staying calm is crucial.
Episode 138: How Getting Divorced Saved My Life
Andrea opens up about her personal journey and how getting
divorced legitimately saved her life.
Episode 137: Can I Pause or Stop my Divorce Process?!
It’s a complex decision, whether to pause your divorce process and explore the possibility of reconciliation. We discuss why some couples might reconsider divorce, the emotional and practical aspects to consider before making a decision, and the importance of having real, lasting change before hitting pause.
Episode 136: How Do I Know if it's Time to Get Divorced?
In this episode of How Not To Suck At Divorce, Andrea and Morgan talk about the tough question of whether to stay or go in your marriage. They walk you through the simple but powerful TALK acronym to help you gain clarity and confidence as you make this big decision in your life. They cover how therapy can help you unpack what's going on, the importance of understanding your emotional needs, how to assess the fun and love in your relationship, and why knowledge is key to moving forward.
Episode 135: Divorcing Over the Holidays Sucks. (Emotional Support)
Tough emotions that can arise during the holiday season when you're going through a divorce. We know it’s not easy, and we’ve got your back!
Episode 134: When Your Kids Don't Want to Go To the Coparent's House (Divorce Tips)
We are talking about what so many divorced parents struggle with—kids who resist going to the other parent’s house. We talk about why this happens and offer actionable tips for managing these tough transitions. It’s completely normal for kids to feel conflicted, and in this episode, we break it down and share ways to make those transitions smoother.
Episode 133: Could You Save Time and Money with a Collaborative Divorce?
What is a collaborative divorce? How is it different from traditional litigation, and could it be the right choice for your situation?
Episode 132: How Compartmentalizing Will Help You and Not Compartmentalizing Can Hurt You in Your Divorce
We're joined by Sarah Armstrong, author of A Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce, to discuss the importance of compartmentalizing during the divorce process. Listen to how the VP of global marketing operations, at Google...yep…navigated her divorce with grace.