Not only did your marriage not work out, but now your divorce attorney isn't working out!! aaahhh!!

What now?!?

Well, on this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce we are going to talk you through how to switch divorce attorneys, so listen up!

It's the season FOUR premiere!!!  We are SO excited to bring you an AMAZING season of advice, divorce tips, and of course, a lot of LAUGHS.

This episode is HUGE and a MUST LISTEN if you are in the process of picking an attorney. 

The joke is, why do so many spend more time debating on whether they're going to swipe right of left on someone on Tinder then they do picking their divorce attorney?!?!?

You have a horrible feeling in the pit of your stomach, but where is it coming from?

Is it work? Friends? Kids? or is it your marriage??

You know her, you follow her, you love her, it's Gabrielle Stone joining us today on the season three finale of How Not Suck at Divorce. 

There's a growing trend to share your life with someone and NOT get legally married...which sounds great, right?!?

No marriage = no divorce...so what could be bad??

Well, there's some things to consider...and on this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce we are chatting with Houston area attorney, Susan Myres, who's shedding light on the perils of playing house.

Okay, WTF is a collabortive divorce and how would you know if you qualify for one?

Today on our show, we have Austin attorney, Kris Algert, who is an EXPERT on collaborative divorces.

Child Support. You know it, you love/hate it. But what if you need to modify it?

How do you modify child support post divorce decree?

How can you get more child support?

How do you know if you're paying too much in child support?

Let us start off by saying that we LOVE therapy.

However, all therapists are NOT created equally and on this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce we are looking at the problem that some therapists create for their clients. Okay...stay with us...

What is Nesting??

Nesting is when a divorced couple with children keep the children in the family home, or "nest", and the divorced parents spend their parenting time in the "nest" and their non parenting time outside of the "nest".

Listen to this episode to hear Morgan's legal questions regarding the topic and Andrea's slighty taboo questions on the sticky side of "nesting".

This podcast episode is not meant to scare you. It's meant to INFORM you.

Please pay attention to the insight given by Steven Bradley and take note of these action steps.

"Self Care" can be MUCH easier than you think. Forget about the day at the spa or the daycation at the fancy hotels...those are great, but not everyone has the money and time!!

Here's something that EVERYONE can do. Meditate. Stay with me. Meditation does not have to be so "woo woo" and for people who spend their afternoon hugging trees. Meditation is a really valuable way to help you get your sh$t together, for lack of a better expression!

Inspired by a listener email, we bring you:

"Should I Change or Keep my Last Name?"

It can be a tough decision, but here's our bottom line: YOU DON'T HAVE TO MAKE A DECISION RIGHT AWAY!!

Listen to this episode BEFORE you go into mediation. 

It IS possible to have a positive outcome from mediation, even if you feel like you your soon to be ex spouse agree on NOTHING.

Deb Conley offers a course you can take to help you be a better coparent. It's done virutally and not both you and your ex have to take Chew on this: It's not the divorce that hurts the children; it's the conflict.

Coparenting can be REALLY hard, everybody knows that. But coparenting with someone who's really difficult, and someone who gave you hell during your divorce process is reaaaaallllly hard, believe me, we know. We have heard it all.

Here are three action steps you can take to put you in the best position possible to keep your martial home.

1) Learn how to best refinance/look at a buyout

2) Get creative with negoiations

3) Remember to keep a business mindset

(We go deep into all of these steps, so make sure you take a close listen to this episode!)

The house. A hot topic during divorce.

And for good reason; it's the house where you made lots of memories, especially if you have children together. But since the house is likely an asset that you have as a couple, now that you are divorcing, it's an asset that will need to be divided.

So, what the hell should you do with the house??

Okay, raise your hands if you're open to trying a new way of healing!!

Apparently, talk therapy doesn't work for everyone who's stuggling with overcoming trauma.

Today's guest, Carrie Holladay, is a trauma healing coach and she's giving us an overview on somanic healing and how it could possibly with for you.

This episode is going to help you help your kids as you navigate your divorce.

Meet Sara Olsher. She's the founder of a company called Mighty and Bright, a company dedicated to helping parents help their kids through difficult transitions, like a divorce.

Mighty and Bright makes stylish coparenting calendars that are designed for your children! They are have books, games and tons of other resources!!